Let Go Or Let Them Go? (Part-2)

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So, in the last post, we came across the fundamentals of life, and the problems. We also saw the case of Ashley. So, should Ashley let it go, or let them go?

Let us again discuss some important factors:

  • The Karma Law/ Boomerang rule: As unreal as it may sound to the non-believers, this does exist. This law/rule simply means that when you perform an action/deed, may it be good or bad, the result comes back to affect you, at some point of your life, or another… It has happened with me as well. So, lets believe it, for once, I say.
  • Chances and Choices: We have choices, mostly 2 major choices pertaining to a decision/action/situation. And chances… well, depends on the person.
  • Faulty Image/Rumour Effect: Sometimes, our decisions are overshadowed by rumours or faulty images that people create for selfish motives. So, its important to decide a person’s worth by only what you know. Incomplete information can be dangerous.
  • Emotional balance: All that I can say is, that its very important.

Lets analyze what we know. There might be multiple reasons behind Jason’s unknown and sudden disappearance:

  1. Ashley might be a distraction, posing a threat to his future.
  2. He might be fed up with her for some reasons.
  3. He might have found a better friend than Ashley.
  4. He did this to testify her trust.
  5. He might be feeling bad for Ashley’s dependence on him, her vulnerability, etc.
  6. Anything other than the listed possibilities.

Now, looking at the options, 4th one seems a bit awkward. So let us extrapolate the rest.

  1. This holds a major position in the stats. Might be true.
  2. I see lesser scope for this reason. He was the one to initiate the conversation.
  3. Quite possible.
  4. This can be a reason, only if the friend has a thoughtful mind.
  5. Various possibilities in this point.

According to her, there were no fights as such. Then, what happened to her friend? He hasn’t discarded her from social media as well. What are the indications of this on and off conversation? Will this ever end?

After the complete analysis, we are almost near the conclusion. And that, we’ll discuss in the last part of this series.

Until then, keep thinking, keep anticipating… ❤

Much love,

Jane…

 

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Let Go or Let Them Go? (Part-1)

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One of the biggest and most important decisions ever- Should I let(it) go or let them go? Its really strange, right? I mean, something so basic and petty just creates a lot of frenzy. It sounds so obvious, right? Let It Go. Situation are meant to occur, as such. But the reality is way deeper, and traumatizing…

Most of the people fail to understand the consequence itself. An impulsive reaction always causes trouble. The thing is, that when the other person does something unacceptable, what we tend to do, relies on many factors. Impulsiveness vs. Introspection- Lets see what wins…

When we’re really close to a person/people, we tend to act emotionally, overlooking their faults and flaws. Yes, it can prove to be beneficial, but not every time…

Let us keep certain points in mind:

  • Anger/Disgust/Disappointment:When someone does not act as per our wish and will. When someone disagrees with our point of view. Or when someone does something unacceptable, causing inconvenience.
  • Misunderstanding: The root cause of relationships coming to an end.
  • Ego: The word often confused with self-respect. Though the demarcation is very fine, ego is something which burns down the bridges of relations, due to overconfidence/excess of unwanted attention/natural tendency.
  • Self-Respect: far better than ego. Once you lose it, you don’t deserve to be called a human being anymore. Dictionary meaning- pride and confidence in oneself; a feeling that one is behaving with honour and dignity.

So, let us begin the discussion. We’ll assume a story:

Suppose, there’s a girl called Ashley. She has a best friend, Say Jason. Jason and Ashley used to talk regularly. They used to share their deepest and darkest secrets. One day, Jason suddenly Stops replying. Ashley starts feeling alone and broken. People didn’t see a big deal in it, but we all know how it feels. Jason suddenly messages her after months together. Bewildered, Ashley responds her right away. And again he becomes unresponsive.

This girl faces the same dilemma. More or less, everyone faces the same dilemma in different conditions. Should Ashley Let Go Of The Situations and be normal to Jason, Or should she let go of Jason Himself?

We shall discover the answer, in the next part of the blog series.

Until then, keep anticipating. ❤

Much love,

Jane.

To the people who left me in the middle of nowhere…

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First of all, thank you. Thank you for leaving me, without giving me any reasons or explanations. This blog post is a special dedication to this GOOD deed of y’all… So, here we go…


Firstly, I want to address the best friend who not only left me, but also stabbed me a thousand times… Girl, thank you for being a torturous best friend. I was not even appraised of your intentions, not to mention my immense trust on our bond… It was so bad, that now when I look back, I find it rather useless to ask you as to why you did this to me. You left me, unexplained- fine… But, bullying?! Was that the only solution? Was our friendship so weak, that a third person instigated you, and you believed her. Kudos, girl! Because you know what? I’m growing stronger, day by day… Its good that we’re still in the same school; even god doesn’t want me to forget or forgive your cruel act. (Ref.- Strangers In a Crowd… )

Secondly, to the newly made and soon faded best friend. I never cared about you being from the opposite gender, all I knew was that I wanted to confide completely into you, and wished the same from your side. But now I guess I was wrong. Anyway, thank you for teaching me how to be self-dependent. Though I wasted thousands of tears behind you, I don’t think we’ll ever get along again. And if we do, the feelings will never be achieved again. I still see a faint ray of hope, that you’ll come back. But then, reality strikes, and I come to the conclusion that people who left me like this don’t come back, and if they do, they have some selfish motive behind it…

Lastly, to all of you out there who betrayed me at some point of my life or other… I have two words for you: Thanks & sorry. Thanks for making me stronger, and sorry, because the doors for you in my life are closed for ever.

You left me, and kicked me harder when I was down. Now sit and pray to God that, my demons don’t rise. Ever.

I wish I were as smart as others. I wish I were as mean and manipulative as others. I wish I were selfish. To be born kind and compassionate is a blessing, but not always. This is what I’ve known so far…

P.S.- To the faded guy: I’m still waiting for you to prove my perception wrong…


From retrospection of the events, all that I can say is that trust is valuable. To all the readers out there, never trust people easily. They’ll stab you and blame you for this. And make you feel guilty for no reason, for lifetime. So, choose people wisely. Always.

-Jane

After a long time…

So, hi everyone! I know I’ve not been posting since quite a long time, and I’m sorry for that. I’m actually staying busy these days, but I’ll make sure to post an update really soon… Until then, stay tuned, and don’t forget to help people in need…

Special announcement: For all those who are wanting to convey any suggestions, comments or ideas to me, you can contact me on my Facebook page… Also, share your problems/stories with me and I will definitely try to help you with them, or let the world know the motivational side of your life…

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Much love,

Jane…

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The Battlefield…

“And… done!”, she exclaimed as she drafted the reports to her boss. And After getting a confirmation from the other side, she left for her place.

Ayesha Hassan was her name. And everyone thought of her as a cheerful lady. She used to sparkle up her surrounding everytime. She had that aura, and that charm. Her prominent habit was wishing everyone a very good morning (or evening) accompanied with a confident yet sweet smile. She was the perfect blend of beauty with brains.

But what you see is what you get doesn’t seem to be true every time. Nobody knew that she was suffering from depression and nobody even bothered to ask if she was okay. She used to cry for hours together and then return back to what she was. A week later she was found dead in her apartment. Her suicide note went like this-
“To anyone who gets this note,
I’m pretty sure that you must not be aware of the reason why I killed myself. And I can say that because I apprised no one of my condition. I didn’t want anyone to stress out ’cause of me. My life is my job and ending it is mine too. You might be thinking of me as a coward and it is legitimate. But I was done with my personal life and so I had to take this step. Sorry for all of the trouble that I might have caused to you. And the secrets, including my personal life would be cremated with me. I blame no one for this step. Goodbye and stay happy…”

So just like her, many people might be into some or the other trouble. It’s just that they don’t show. If you’ve got a person around you who doesn’t talk much, then go ahead and start a conversation. Never misunderstand a smile for someone’s happy life. You never know what’s happening around. And if you come to know that the person is suffering from any such trouble, then show your support because depression is a major battle and these people need to survive in the battlefield…
#SupportThem
#TheyAreFightingABattle

Defining the Undefined: Going Beyond The Horizon…

Hello everyone… I had been away for a long time because of my busy schedule… But now, I’m back with a new blog post… Thank you for showing your support, and I hope you continue showering your love and blessings, just like this… Stay connected on my Facebook page ( https://www.facebook.com/inspireyourself912/ ) and on this blog site, of course… Until then, enjoy my brand new article. Happy Reading!

– Jane


 

 

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We always get enthralled by the idea of Innovation… A Completely different concept is our lifelong demand. We literally follow the latest fashion, language, and event trends. We are just so engrossed in bringing a change in our lives,and we unknowingly support originality. We support the idea of defining the undefined…

Say, for instance, that, a few decades back, stepping on the moon was a dream… But today, it is possible. Our world is passing through a filter of innumerable changes, and we just can’t be aware of all of them. These changes bring drastic differences to an individual, to a society, and ultimately to a nation…

But amidst all these issues, we neglect the need of building up a new future for our new generation. Yes, there are people who constantly run behind such facts and purposes. They are known as inventors and scientists. They are humans, just like us. But what makes them unique is the fact that they have a vast horizon… Something that means a normal activity to us, might mean a huge event for them…

The truth that we fail to see such a big deal in small happenings, is bitter and harsh. We actually lack creativity and knowledge. And as we know, there is a thin line between knowledge and literacy. A person graduating from the topmost university is indeed literate, but not necessarily knowledgeable… We need to apply the theories in practical world. We need to be original, no matter how dumb we seem to be…

Many of my friends ask me as to how I developed my talent of writing… At that time, I put forward this sentence, or rather a Mantra that can change your life-

Be Original. Stay Consistent. Pursue your Dreams. Keep your Aim in your Mind…

I’ve always supported the idea of being original, and I’ll always support it. The other day, we were discussing the difference between talent and training. What Albert Einstein had, is talent. But today, students are getting trained by his equations. If you want to set an example for people, then you need to be talented and not trained…

A beautiful quote by Arthur C.  Clarke, goes like this:

The only way to discover the limits of the possible,

Is to go beyond them into the Impossible…

So, if we are fond of changing the world, then we ourselves need to be the change. And for that, Defining the Undefined: Going Beyond the Horizon, is extremely necessary…

Connect with Me on Facebook…

Hello Guys! I was busy these days and so I was away for such a long time. But now I am back…Before starting to write my blogs, I would like to make an announcement. If you are on Facebook, and do not want to miss a single update of this blog or want to have an inspirational corner on the go, then please do like my page. And do invite your friends to like the page…
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Till then, stay inspired….
Cheers!!!

– Jane

What Meets The Eye…

 

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I’ve seen the definitions changing at some course of time… For instance, definition of LOVE, definition of LIFE, definition of PAIN, and so on… What was dealt with, a decade ago, is now just in the form of a line in the books! Strange, right? Maybe. Or maybe NOT.

If I talk about the present situation, then I would probably not go and experience everything in terms of the current definitions. Thrill, as they say, is basically indicating towards rash driving, snorting coke, being heavily drunk, playing with emotions, and a recent one (and a bit explicit, too)- lying, and cheating… That’s thrill, right? Not enough for you to understand. Then, let’s define Love in today’s terms… To many of us, love means a kind of attraction for a time being:getting attracted with one’s skin, eyes, voice, flowing locks, or whatsoever… A strange fact that hovers around this definition is that we’re bound to see what we could see, bound to listen what we could listen, bound to feel what we could feel. Its basically like an iceberg- we respond to something that we see. But in reality, there’s always something more that what MEETS THE EYE…

That’s why when we date back, or maybe talk about the real feelings, Thrill is associated with some adventures, and not with committing offenses. Life is associated with the joy of living, and not an extravagant and lavish lifestyle. And Love is associated with the connection of minds, hearts and souls, and not just a mere connection of bodies.

The main reason as to why philosophy sounds boring or difficult to us is that we do not want to explore; We do not want to go beyond our limitations… We do not want to spend time in making our lives worthwhile, and experiencing divinity out of it… That’s why we are Common Beings, and not Human Beings in true sense of philosophy…

We need to explore and go beyond the plot line, because there’s always something more than What Meets The Eye…

The Daylight…

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We never smiled,
Neither we cried…
We kept walking,
By the roadside…

We never dreamed,
Neither we will…
We stare at the panorama,
Through the window sill…

We never took a chance,
Neither we played…
We just went along,
The wind, as they said…

We never tasted victory,
Neither we tried…
We just heard of failures,
And for them, we never cried…

We never explored,
Neither we want to…
We just want the Daylight,
For finding a new way through…