Encountering The Facts…

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Most of us are into the habit of putting up deceptions for the world, as far as our personal matters are concerned. It’s a sort of charade, which has to be carried on, willingly or unwillingly. Just as we change our clothes, we also change our masks. In short, we fool people. We pretend. We do play a charade.

But what’s that for? We often overlook the facts and truths that are hidden behind some of the most common incidents that take place, almost everyday. We know that it isn’t right, but we do know that right response is Wrong!

Social etiquette, as they say. We laugh out at the most painful comments passed out on us, even if our heart is crying out loud. We will never know what we’re going through, unless and until we encounter some of the most shocking facts about life…

To begin with, we have a very common way of putting someone down to shame. It is basically an act of insult taunt. Yes, you read it right! Yeah, taunts aren’t insults, they’re just funny comments- this is a common excuse to get out of any further complications. And until now, even we were thinking the same. But this story will change your perception.

A girl named Anna Rose was diagnosed with a major mental disorder called-B.P.D. (borderline personality disorder) and also with Social anxiety disorder. For her better analysis, doctors thought that she should attend at least one social gathering- Not for too long, so that they know the stage of her suffering. But,those thirty minutes of gathering, were the most horrible minutes of Anna’s life. People started commenting and taunting her, following which, She was pushed into the acute stage of her illness.

Yes, we do not understand that our words can have a major impact on people. That is why it is necessary to Think before we speak… 

Maybe, we do not wish to discover the hidden facts… We do not want to see the bitter grin hidden under a warming smile. We do not want to come across the cruel intentions behind a helping hand. It’s not so that everyone is Bad, but neither this is a fact that everyone is a good soul.

So, the moral of the story is that we should be alert enough to understand a person’s real face. And for that, Encountering The Facts is really necessary…


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Regards,

Jane

Strangers In a Crowd…

Let’s face it… Everyone’s focusing on the Success game of oneself’s and of others, too. But nobody wants to listen to the rough experiences that one went through, to become what they are today. Let this be thought about

Failures are the stepping-stones to Success…

 

So, it is also inevitable to know about the fact that made a person’s growth game exceptionally strong, and that is the Hardship that one went through…

Let’s not think of others for a moment. And just as everyone, I would like to talk about myself. Hardship comes for me only when I face betrayal. Sounds awkward, right?

Well, to begin with, I am an outgoing and happy-go-lucky person. So, its easy for anyone to assume, that I might be having a lot of friends, right? WRONG. ‘Til 8th Grade, I had a huge friends circle, but things changed after that…

I never knew that my own best friends would turn out to be my sworn enemies, but things went beyond limits when I went through BULLYING…

Those 6 months were terrible… Although, it was verbal bullying, but in those six months the list of my haters almost tripled…

When hell lot of people talk behind your back, it is enough even for a saint to be driven up on a wall. They just wanted to, and they did make me feel Obnoxious…

Betrayal, Bullying and Deprssive attacks were made, but I made sure that I stood strong as ever…

I suppose the storm has passed, but on the other side, it wasn’t the same, old me who emerged. It was me, but a stronger, and braver one…

Although there was a positive side to this, but it was one of the most horrible experiences till now…

The Strangers in that Crowd went away, But did leave many brutal scars, which still appear on my soul…

 

 

Stronger Self: Version 2.0

As we witness major changes taking place in our worlds, we also witness a drastic difference in people’s morals and also in their ‘High Society Values’, as they call it. What has left me rather speechless is the cold-blooded attitude of people. Biggest example is that murders, rapes and other such atrocities are considered like penny in the whole treasure chest of crime, and that is deeply saddening…

Many psychological tests were and are conducted on people with criminal mentality or  cold-blooded attitude. The results are quite shocking as well as pathetic. Most of the cold-blooded and stone-hearted criminals were soft and polite souls at some point. Then, what made them so ferocious?

The reason is very simple. Psychological facts reveal that majority of the people who are engaged in criminal or illegal activities were once good at heart, and chances are that the goodwill of the person still prevails. The noticeable fact is that at some point of their life, these people faced brutality and harsh cruelty. Rapes, murders, acid attacks, communal wars etc. that were conducted, were witnessed or felt by these people. The major reason behind invoking a person’s criminal conscience is the lack of getting proper guidance. After terrible losses or atrocities a person breaks down, losing confidence in his inner self. When this person isn’t able to pick himself up, (see the article-#1: Pick Yourself Up…)  consequences are:

  • Attempts of suicide- result of weakening of inner self
  • Turning into cold blooded person- mostly criminals and the like.

What can be done? The answer to this question is restricting the rate of crimes, which thereby takes us to the opinion that deeply hurt people should be provided with emotional as well as psychological support. Maybe, that could help.

If I talk in the first person view of such survivors, then main focus should be driven over rebuilding yourself into a stronger self- Something like the Version 2.0 of you. Dusting out the pains and moving on is the most courageous and best thing that you can do to yourself. Remember-

Death is not the answer to any question, and never a solution to any problem…

The first and foremost thing to remember is that the show will go on with or without you. The only thing that you need to do is to Rise and Shine-constantly

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#1: Pick Yourself Up…

People tend to think that once they’ve faced terrible loss, they aren’t worth standing up again. Basically, social and emotional issues give rise to such ideas.

Few of them are listed below:

  • Fear of becoming an issue- talk of the town
  • Being addressed as a Loser 
  • Feeling down on an emotional scale or getting  Negative thoughts

Reverse-Process or commonly known as demotivation begins. In this case, the one who’s patient is proved to be witty…

Majority of the people ask about the solutions to such problems. But they are unaware that

The Solution Does Not Lie Around us; It Lies Within Us…

So, we should begin by patiently thinking about the problem and the consequences to be dealt with. We should also try to get motivation from different sources. I suggest music and other such arts as the best antidotes. Even nature can help us to get cured.

The above mentioned process is known as picking yourself up. This is the basic thing to be done when you want to deal correctly with a problem. Next step will be explained in the next blog.

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Regards,

Jane…

Getting Started…

It is a bit awkward to write a blog… But actually its my first blog ever… I’ll make sure to share all my ideas and views here and keep you inspired and entertained.It is also said that,

CRITICISM IS VERY MUCH NECESSARY FOR IMPROVISATION…

So, do give your feedback…

Regards,

Jane